It may be that mothers have a hard time discerning between when sons need comforting and when they need bucking up. Here’s a rule of thumb: If he hasn’t faced the trial yet, or he’s in the midst of it – encourage him. If he’s been to the wars and is limping home wounded – comfort him. Once the wounds are bound up, encourage him to rise and face the fight again.

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